Heal Family Relationships

Heal Family Relationships

My Story

My Mom was very controlling, emotionally and physically abusive. I never opened the window shades in my bedroom because I could not master the wrist snap that would send the shade moving upward. The shade & I battled for domination every day. I usually lost. Mom attempted to show me how to tame the shade, but my fear of her overwhelmed me and she blew up, beating me like a wild, out of control maniac. It wasn’t the first time she had beat me up, but it was the one that I remembered for it’s viciousness. I made a decision that day—Never would anyone treat me like that again.

She was overly controlling, ridged in a mindset that denied me playtime, creative time and freedom of expression. I existed to work for her, doing housework and cooking.   I was being suffocated mentally and emotionally. I had to make another decision. I was going to have to fight for my will to survive and be me. And fight I did— everyday we were together. Many times the arguing became so intense and so angry I thought I would explode. I became good at reading her body language, her energy, her moods. It was my safety net. I created such a shell of protection around me for many years that I lost the ability to feel anything, because to feel, I reasoned, would make me weak and helpless & useless if I had to defend myself in the future. I had to be strong and strength left no room for feelings.

Years later I came to understand that she was not mentally stable. She could not find peace in herself, peace in her life, or contentment in her activities. She was torn by resentments, fear, and frustration with being a woman trapped in a life she hated.

Time to Look at Me

So after putting thousands of miles between us, I started looking at me. I saw the anger seething below the numbness, the inability to feel any kindness toward her, the inability to trust people, the lack of love for myself and the protective emotional shell I had built up around me. This was not how I wanted to live. So I went on a journey to find me.

I studied everything I could about childhood trauma and the recovery techniques. But the most help came from releasing the anger and fear inside of me. The process also released the anger and fear inside of her too. Hypnotherapy and my Spirit guides worked their magic and I was set free. Then I saw that others dealt with the same problem.

“Your journey is your gift to others.” — Wendy Gayle, psychic

Deep Clearing Workshops

I created a workshop for parents who needed to be free from the unloving relationships with their adult children. It worked. My techniques pierced the layers of blackness, isolation, anger and melted the customary, denigrating feelings of both parents and adult children.  It opened the doors of heart and spirit based communication and released the anguish each person was holding onto. It was a magical, spontaneous energetic healing of only two hours.

 

This was a wonderful experience. I’m shifting my relationship with my son.— Kristin

It’s like “magic.” I shifted my relationship with my son.— Heather

When i was sick, my son asked me if he could get my anything. And we actually talked without screaming at each other. Thanks Amber for the great workshop.— Aida

 

Just by working with the parents, the adult children were healed even though they were not even present at the workshop. We are all wrapped in an energetic web of hate and anger and love and understanding. We can  chose the one we want.  That choice will shift our lives.

 

One on One Sessions

In the one on one hypnotherapy family energy clearing sessions, my clients  have received an even more profound feeling. They have felt deep relief.

Their comments…

“What a relief to be free from that energy!”

“What a trip to feel the energy moving through my body!”

“I could feel you pull out that energy cord. It made a popping sound.”

“They act like a bear coming out of hibernation, exuberant about being free and ready to jump into life again.”

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You can’t find peace, until you find all the pieces. — Oprah

Release Your Magical Child

My paperback book, Release Your Magical Child, is my journey through PTSD, post traumatic stress disorder, to find my inner peace. And it is a journey to find myself, my Inner Child and my spiritual connection. Written as a novel, it allows the reader to step in and walk with me through the mental challenges, and inner life discoveries and raise the awareness and consciousness of their lives.

This story will strengthen your willpower, open your heart and soothe your emotions. It also shows you how to take back your emotional intelligence and get reacquainted with your Spirit. You will get a chance to feel the abundant love of the Archangels and their attempts to help us thrive. By opening your heart, you will feel the presence of Spirit.

As you read my challenges, and remember your own, you may decide to make a decision to free yourself. Great. I’ve written some workbooks that will help. A little time and energy with these exercises will break your protective shell and set you free.

Release Your Magical Child | Mental Reset

“You must learn a new way to think before you can master a new way to be”—Marianne Williamson

If you would like a private session, please contact me through my contact page. We will set up a discovery session.

Mastering the Art of Energy

In the spiritual realm, we deal with energy because the whole world is made of energy and everything in the world is made of energy. Your thoughts, your beliefs, your dreams, your core body, your imagination are all energy. Other people’s thoughts, beliefs, dreams, core body, and their imagination is all energy too. Our thoughts can shift in a second. Our beliefs will transform when we see evidence that is counter to our beliefs. Our body energy can move from depressed to high alive vitality and back again in  a few minutes.

Why Does this Happen?

It happens because energy moves all the time. And energy attracts same vibration energy. So when we are in a low energy state or a negative mood, we are absorbing the low vibration energy of the negative people as well as the low energy of situations, places and things around us. Absorbing this low vibration energy reinforces our low energy and drains us.

When we are in contact with high energy vibration people, we can absorb their energy as well and feel high and vibrant (like being at a concert).

As children we are energetically designed to absorb our parent’s energy including their thoughts, feelings, beliefs, buried anger, lost dreams, confusion, fears and frustrations over jobs, other family members, and their philosophy about life.

This small negative energy can easily become a huge heavy, negative energy field in and around you causing mental confusion, and physical pain. It will weigh you down and push you into inertia, depression, guilt, low self esteem. It will hamper your ability to find you, reconnect to your dreams, your beliefs, your life mission or your philosophy. It will feel like trying to paint your kitchen when the walls are covered with grease, or food stains? You can’t do it, can you? Just as you need a fresh, new canvas to create an art masterpiece, you need a body of clean energy to create a new you.